sermon by Nobington Murambadoro 2025-12-28
Joseph and Mary's "betrothal" was a binding agreement that entailed serious life planning... which Mary's pregnancy & Jesus's birth turned upside down... Rev Nobington Murambadoro delves into the birth of Christ from Joseph's perspective. Highlighting Joseph's obedience to God amidst confusion and societal pressures.

As we approach the end of the year, I find myself reflecting on the story of Joseph and Mary, a narrative that is central not only to the historical account of Christ's birth but also to our own personal journeys. The birth of Christ, foretold by prophets like Isaiah, is a testament to God's grand design, even when it interrupts our own well-laid plans. This post aims to delve into how Joseph's response to divine interruptions is a lesson for us all.

The Binding Agreement of Betrothal

From my perspective, understanding the concept of betrothal through the lens of different cultures offers intriguing insights. For instance, in some cultures, like my own African context, betrothal involves a binding agreement akin to what Joseph and Mary experienced, underscoring the seriousness and commitment expected.

When I proposed love to my wife, it wasn't just a casual decision; it required thoughtful engagement and a shared vision of our future. We had to agree to the proposal and solidify it through traditional practices, such as the payment of the bride price, a public declaration of our commitment. This process, much like Joseph and Mary's, signifies a binding union not to be taken lightly.

Joseph, A Man of Character

Joseph's predicament, finding Mary pregnant before they had been formally married, placed him in a significant moral and social dilemma. Initially, Joseph planned to divorce Mary quietly, a decision that spoke volumes about his character. Though he felt betrayed and might have suffered the disgrace of it all, he chose to act privately rather than expose her publicly.

I often think about how circumstances can test our character, much like a coin with two sides. They either reveal the strength of our integrity or expose our hidden flaws. Joseph's quiet dignity and obedience to God's will are reminders of what it means to uphold one's virtues, even amid life's challenges.

God's Fulfilled Prophecy

As Joseph considered his next steps, an angel appeared to him in a dream, reassuring him of God's plan. This divine message highlighted that Mary's pregnancy fulfilled a prophecy — that of a virgin bearing a son named Emmanuel, meant to bring salvation to the world. Joseph's acceptance and obedience demonstrate his relationship with God.

In my own life, maintaining a relationship with God helps me understand and accept the unexpected events that occur, trusting in a greater plan. As Paul said, "It is not I who live but Christ in me," reinforcing that only in a deep relationship with God can we find the strength to perform seemingly impossible tasks.

Reflecting and Renewing Our Relationship With God

Just as a romantic relationship requires nurturing, so does our relationship with God. Taking the time to reflect, pray, and immerse ourselves in God’s word is crucial, particularly as we make resolutions for a new year. This season is an opportunity to recommit to nurturing our spiritual connection.

Just like I love taking time to nurture relationships, whether through shared experiences or simple acts of kindness, the same applies spiritually. Regular reflection and renewal foster growth and understanding, aligning us with God's intentions.

Embracing Divine Interruptions

As we conclude this year and turn our eyes toward 2026, let's embrace the divine interruptions that come our way. They are reminders that while our plans might fall apart, God's presiding plan prevails. I have experienced moments where my own plans were displaced by a higher purpose—an experience that remains humbling and enlightening.

I hope this Christmas season challenges us to welcome these divine detours, just as Joseph did, with faith and trust in God’s perfect design. Let us be sensitive and willing to accept that God's plans will ultimately lead us to where we are meant to be.

Conclusion

May the Lord bless you and keep you. May He make His face shine upon you and be gracious to you. May He lift up His countenance upon you and give you peace, now and into the year ahead. In Jesus' name, Amen.