Amberlea Church

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1820 Whites Rd, Pickering, Ontario, L1V 1R8
905-839-1383
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Worship: SUN 11:00 a.m.

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What I did on my summer vacation.

September 07, 2022 by Rev. Mona Scrivens

This year as I neared my traditional August off, I was exhausted. Certainly there has been the effects of a discombobulating couple of years, but it was more than that.  I felt spent, weepy and frankly useless. I found it difficult to plan, to read, to write, there were times I felt I couldn’t even speak coherently.  I was looking forward to going up to the cottage with Luna (and Brian) and just being and sleeping. Then I would read books and do pottery, go for walks and get out on the kayak and remember why God put me on this earth. I would sit in the sun and breath in and breath out and just be present in the moment. I would rest and then I would plan and write a new sermon series for the Fall.  It was going to be restful and productive.  Perfect!

It didn’t quite turn out as I imagined.

At the beginning of August I planned a gathering to celebrate a milestone birthday for Brian.  It was so fun and Brian felt honoured and special but it was exhausting.

Throughout the summer we had lots of people visit us up at the cottage.  It was wonderful to share our space up North but, it was exhausting.

In mid August we flew to New York for 5 days to go to shows, meet Billy Crystal, see the Blue Jays whip the Yankees, eat delicious meals, see the sights and just embrace the NYC life.  It was a brilliant trip but, it was exhausting.

And, so we would soon not forget our wonderful trip, we brought home the souvenir of COVID.

Brian’s symptoms were pretty mild but I was sicker than I had ever been. Two days of high fever and excruciating headache. For five days I didn’t leave my bed. I don’t remember much of those days other than being just plain miserable. I spent another 5 days just watching garbage Netflix shows. Ten days of not having enough energy to read a book, to sit at the pottery wheel, to go for a walk, to paddle a kayak, to sit in the sun and breath in and breath out. I was that exhausted.  And as I write this, I am still functioning at a lower ebb with which I am familar.

People ask, did you have a relaxing summer?  I am not sure how to answer.  Spending 10+ days doing literally nothing (not because I wanted to but because my body gave me no choice) was not how I planned to “relax” but that’s what happened.

I am not complaining and I certainly hope I don’t sound whinny, this is just to say that we might have plans to do x, but it may not pan out they way we thought.  So what does that mean?

It means it is ok.

It means that sometimes our plans are not God’s plan.

Proverbs 3:5-6 says we must “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.”

I believe that it is only when we surrender our lives completely that God can start to work out God’s will in our lives. Let go and trust God, is a pretty good motto.

It means blessed be name of the Lord in the good and the bad.

Romans 8:28 says: “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to God’s purpose.”

No, my summer wasn’t the picture-perfect relaxing, rejuvenating summer I had envisioned but we have all lived long enough to know that life doesn’t always go as we plan. What I have come to learn is that these times become opportunities to trust in the Lord, to show myself the same love and grace as I would show my neighbour and learn to embrace the unplanned!

September 07, 2022 /Rev. Mona Scrivens

Bring Your Backpack for Blessing

September 01, 2022 by Rev. Mona Scrivens

The mornings and the evenings are a little cooler, the sun is setting a little earlier in the night, even a few leaves are changing colour on the trees.  All signs that fall is quickly approaching.  For many families, that means school is right around the corner.  For some of us, nothing notably different will happen in our homes, as there are no children near. Still there is a sense of new beginnings and a longing for routine that swirls around us.

With the new school year comes a multitude of emotions, ranging from excitement to anxiousness, sometimes all mixed together.  September brings so many possibilities. 

Can you picture the littlest ones starting preschool programs, and those entering kindergarten for the first time?  Do you remember wondering about your new teacher or what your new school would be like? I vividly remember getting lost in the hallways and forgetting my locker combination in high school. Can you empathize with the parent letting go and driving away from campus or navigating the ‘adulting’ rules for the students who are at home?

Do you remember those days? Do you remember the frenzy of emotions?  Do you remember the joy of seeing friends again and the dread of homework?  Do you remember the first day photos and the bedtime tears?  

You are not alone. God is with you all the time.

Deuteronomy 31:6
 “Be strong and courageous. Do not fear or be in dread of them, for it is the Lord your God who goes with you. He will not leave you or forsake you.”

Amberlea's Family Ministry desires to support the family to live a life of faith as Jesus taught us. We desire to come alongside families of all ages, shapes and sizes and doing life right where you’re at.

We want to remind you that you are not alone.  God has given us, His church, the amazing opportunity to demonstrate that to you.  Let us bless you at the start of this new school year.

Attend the Backpack Blessing service on Sunday, September 11 at 11am. Bring your backpack, briefcase, purse, bag to church and together we will bless students of all ages, teachers and school staff and your bags. If you can’t attend, no worries. Gather your bags at home and participate in the blessing online as a family. You will find the Sunday Worship Service on YouTube.

Sound a little odd? We will take the item you carry around the most and use it as a reminder of God’s great love and ask for His favour and protection as you go forward.

Invite a friend, neighbour or grandchild. You might be surprised who might come.

Not sure how to participate? Just come and bless others. Or you are welcome to bless others at the start of this new school year by bringing in donations of school lunch and snack supplies for the Food Bank.

Let us bless you. Come on Sunday, September 11 at 11am.  Don’t forget your backpack!

Submitted by Nancy Varga
Family Ministries Director
Amberlea Church

September 01, 2022 /Rev. Mona Scrivens

Summer Team Reflections 2022

August 25, 2022 by Rev. Mona Scrivens

What a summer this has been!  This summer Amberlea has had the privilege to offer 7 weeks of half day Mini Camp, 3 weeks of full day Musical Theatre Camp and 2 Family Nights! We have had the opportunity to meet and connect with over 100 children this summer!!!!  All of this is possible in large part because we have been blessed with a paid Summer Team of five wonderful young adults and an amazing group of youth who volunteered this summer. We are incredibly grateful for the Canada Summer Jobs Program that provided much of the remuneration for the paid Summer Team as they gained valuable work experience. The Summer Team was responsible for the planning and execution of all children’s programs. A great deal of work and responsibility, and they rose to the challenge!

As the summer programs come to an end, I invited the Summer Team to reflect on their experience at Amberlea. I asked them each 5 questions that they will answer below.

1.      Who are you?

2.      What did you love about your experience at camp?

3.      What were you hesitant about when you started?

  1. How do you feel now about that thing you were hesitant about?

  2. How did you see God at work this summer?

Please continue to pray for the team as they head to new adventures and also for the many families we connected with this summer.  May God grow the seeds that have been planted.

Nancy J

Family Ministries Director

Amberlea Church

 

“I planted the seed, Apollos watered it, but God has been making it grow.”  

1 Corinthians 3:6

 

Lauren

I’m Lauren, and this fall, I’m attending the University of Waterloo for Systems Design Engineering.

At camp, I really enjoyed outdoor activities, such as Cops and Robbers. It was amazing to see the kids shine as they worked as a team to retrieve all the beanbags from the other side. Sometimes, one camper would distract the other team’s guards to help their team win a beanbag. The campers really seemed to connect with each other through these activities.

At the beginning of summer, I felt a little hesitant about beginning my work as a Summer Camp Counsellor. I needed to get into the groove of meeting all the new campers, and transitioning between activities.

Now, I feel much more comfortable. The team was so supportive and welcoming. Switching between activities became much smoother as we became more trusting of each other.
 
I saw God at work through the campers’ interest to learn and sing about God. Being a camp counsellor is a unique role because we have the responsibility to guide the next generation in their faith journeys. I believe that the work we did talking about God, sharing Bible stories, and praying, helped create an important foundation for campers’ faith. 

 

 

Nia

My name is Nia. I am 18 years old, and I have graduated this year from Pickering High School. In the fall, I will be studying Commerce at Ontario Tech University.

 

My favorite experience at Camp would probably be the Fun Fair Family Night. I had a lot of fun preparing the games for the families, and it brought a smile to my face to see everyone, including the leaders, have so much fun playing the games.

 

When I started working at the camp, I was a little bit hesitant about leading different activities, like Bible Story for example, and meeting the kids. I was nervous about leading as I did not know whether I would make the activities enjoyable for the kids. Also, I would have to learn to step out of my comfort zone, which would possibly be a challenge.

 

I feel relieved about leading different activities and meeting the kids. Although it was a little bit challenging for me to lead at the beginning of the camp, I feel that I have seen improvement, as I gained more confidence in the activities. I also was able to connect well with the kids, which really benefited my overall performance when leading activities.

 

I saw God at work this summer through worship. At the beginning of camp, a lot of the kids didn't really participate that much in the music time, but I found that as they got more familiar with the camp, there was more participation. In doing this, they learned how to connect more with God.

 

Ellen

Hi, I’m Ellen and I was Amberlea’s Summer Team Leader this summer. I recently graduated from McMaster University, with an honours Bachelor of Science in biology and psychology, neuroscience, and behaviour. I will be pursuing further education at the Michener Institute of Education at UHN, in medical laboratory science.

 

As much as summer camp was for the kids, I enjoyed the time that the team was able to spend with the various volunteers that dropped in throughout the summer. Many of these volunteers were just entering high school and entering a completely new environment. Seeing the volunteers go from being hesitant to not wanting to leave our after-camp down time (trust me, there were a lot of rounds of spoons), was just as special as seeing the joy of the kids at camp.

 

I was hesitant about two things: the number of kids that would be registered for our camps and how open-ended planning for the camp could be. When reviewing the number of registrations we had for each week at the beginning of the summer, I was worried that we might have to cancel a week of camp due to only having a handful of kids. Additionally, in similar positions I’ve had in the past, a lot of the programming was set out, such that we didn’t have to create ideas from scratch. At Amberlea, sky was the limit, and we were free to make camp truly our own, but that meant a lot of time just planning and revising on our part.

 

Well, when you pray about worries, God answers. We started the summer with a mere 9 registrations for the first week of camp and now, we’ve exceeded our original capacity of 25 registrations for the last few weeks of camp. Campers enjoyed their time with us so much that they came back time and time again, and some even brought some friends. As for the planning, I have come to enjoy how open-ended the experience was. It was enjoyable to work with the Team and see what we could brainstorm to make Amberlea’s summer camp unique among other summer camps.

 

I saw God at work this summer through the generosity of people in the community. This camp would not have been possible without the hard work and donations from individuals in the church. I also saw God at work through some of the children at camp. Some kids were extremely reluctant to be left at camp without their parents, and unfortunately, there were tears. However, after a couple of days, these kids just couldn’t wait to get back to camp!

 

Mary

My name is Mary. I am a grade 12 student at St. Mary C.S.S. I like to cook and bake, I

love gardening and taking care of house plants. I love music and I play the French horn and

the trumpet in my school band.

 

I loved that we got to meet so many new kids and see their interests and hobbies. There were

countless times where a kid would have to explain to me the video game they loved. It was so

interesting to see how the kids acted after going through a pandemic and to see them act in

ways that I would have thought were unnatural when I was a kid but they had adapted to so

well. For example, playing tag with a pool noodle or even something as simple as wearing a

mask.

 

When I first started, I was hesitant about meeting the new kids and having to get up and talk in

front of all of them when telling a Bible story. I remember when the first kid came in and I

wasn’t really sure what to say to them or what to talk to them about but then it all fell into

place and it was really fun to interact and connect with the kids.

 

I felt that I saw God work in so many ways through the summer. I felt that He helped the kids

flourish in their new environment and really be interested in the Bible stories and ask

questions. I thought that it was beautiful to see how different and unique each kid was and

really see their personalities.

 

Seth

I am Seth. I am doing a concurrent teaching program at Trent University this September. I am hoping to become an elementary school teacher in the near future.

 

The thing I loved most about camp was having all the 1 on 1 time with the kids. It was so great to have this opportunity to meet and know each and every kid. I find it so interesting how this generation of kids grows up. I’ve had a lot of conversation with the kids about what they do after camp. When I was asked this question as a kid, my answers would always be short and sweet. I found that no matter how shy and quiet these kids were, they would talk for hours about the things they like. Ask them about Minecraft or Disney Princesses and they will talk for hours. These connections with the kids were really great and I’m happy I got the opportunity to talk and understand why their world is like.

 

When I think of Camp Counsellors I always think of people who are always excited and enthusiastic about everything. When I started this job, I was worried that I would lack these traits. If you know me, you’ll know that I’m a very introverted person who doesn’t like going out of my comfort zone. I knew that a lot of this job would require me to do things that aren’t as easy for me. Some examples would be singing and dances with kids, getting everyone’s attention or managing behaviour.

 

Now that I’ve worked with kids all summer, I’ve found ways to push myself out of my comfort zone.  I remember the first day of camp I was nervous to sing and dance with the kids, so I did the actions but didn’t sing. Near the end of camp, one of my favourite activities was dancing and singing with the kids. The reason I was nervous was because I was scared of judgement but I eventually learned not to care about what other people think. Now I am no longer scared to push myself out of my comfort zones.

 

I saw Gods work in 2 different ways this summer. The first being in the kids. A lot of kids came from non-Christian homes. I found that whenever we would have our Bible story times, those kids were always the most invested in the stories and weren’t scared to ask questions about God and who He is. The second being Gods work in me. Before working here, I was a very insecure, shy nervous kid struggling with my faith. I had a terrible job and was having trouble with what I wanted to do in life. At the peak of all this mess, Nancy messaged me about joining the Summer Team. This job has shown me how to be comfortable around other people without feeling judgement. I feel like God provided me with this job to not only get out of an unhealthy working situation, but to work with a team who have taught me so much about how to love myself and how to love God. I couldn’t have gotten this job at a better time and I am so thankful for everyone associated with this job!

 

“For this reason, ever since I heard about your faith in the Lord Jesus and your love for all God’s people, I have not stopped giving thanks for you, remembering you in my prayers.”

Ephesians 1:15-16

August 25, 2022 /Rev. Mona Scrivens
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